Why are women hyprocrytes?

A woman can grope a man, but if he looks as if he's about to do the same she slaps him or talks ill about him to others. Why do they flirt and sit on men's laps, but if he flirts with a woman she gets upset at him. Oh & i saw this on judge judy why would a woman go to a man's house and say he's stalking her. finally why do they hang with gay men or thugs then ask where are the good men at